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Willmar
320-235-0545
1000 19th Ave SW
Willmar, MN 56201
Clara City
320-847-3583
111 E 1st St
Box 546
Clara City, MN 56222
Kerkhoven
320-264-3261
307 N 14th St
Kerkhoven, MN 56252
New London
320-354-2211
19 Central Ave E
New London, MN 56273
Belgrade
320-254-8262
Hwy 55 and Hwy 71
Belgrade, MN 56312
Paynesville
320-243-3618
308 Hudson St
Paynesville, MN 56362
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q: What purpose do funerals serve?
A:
Funerals are an important step in the grieving process, as well as
an opportunity to honor a life lived.
They allow family members and friends
a caring, supportive environment to gather to support each other in a
loss, as well as to celebrate the life that has been lived. They are
important because they remind us that each life is special. You are significant,
and the funeral service allows us – the living, an opportunity
to reflect on this.
Q: What is the purpose of public viewing?
A: Viewing of the deceased is an important part of the funeral service.
Many grief counselors feel that viewing of the deceased is important
because it helps the bereaved realize the reality of the passing of a
loved one.
Q: Must I purchase a burial vault?
A: In most areas of the country, state or local law does not require
that you buy an outer burial container or vault to surround the casket
in the grave. However, many cemeteries require that you have such a container
so that the ground will not sink. Either a graveliner or a burial vault
will satisfy these requirements.
Q: What is cremation and how does it compare in cost to a traditional
earth burial?
A: Cremation is an alternative method of disposition
to earth burial. It is simply the process of reducing the body to bone
fragments through
the application of intense heat for several hours in a cremation furnace.
When selected as a substitute for a traditional funeral followed by earth
burial, the cost will be considerably less.
Q: What should I do if death occurs away from home?
A: After the death has occurred, the most prudent decision would be
to call your home town funeral home. Your funeral director will be able
to make the necessary arrangements and coordinate transportation with
another funeral home in the location where the death occurred. This will
save you and your family additional expense.
Q: What determines the cost of a funeral?
A: You and your family do. A funeral can be as extravagant or as simple
as you desire. Preplanning your funeral can help control costs. By making
decisions ahead to time, you avoid having to make choices at a time when
your emotions are heightened. It also provides an opportunity for you
to set aside funds that can be used to pay for part or all of the service.
Q: What is embalming and is it required?
A:
Embalming is the process funeral homes use to chemically preserve and
disinfect the body. This procedure is
performed to allow family members
time to gather for the funeral. By law, embalming is required for the
following reasons – if the body will be transported by public transportation,
final disposition will occur more than 72 hours following the death,
body will be publicly viewed, or if ordered by Department of Health for
disease control.
Q: Does the VA pay for veteran’s
funerals?
A: Although the Veterans Administration
does not pay for complete funerals, it does provide certain merchandise,
services and reimbursements. In
general, any veteran with a discharge other than dishonorable is entitled
to a grave space in a Veteran’s cemetery, a grave liner, opening
and closing of the grave, Veteran marker, and an American flag. Funeral
benefits vary depending on the rank and other variables.
Q: What if I do not wish to use all the services a funeral home has to
offer?
A: The Federal Trade Commission Funeral Rule requires that all funeral
homes itemize their charges for professional services, facilities and
motor vehicle equipment and that they provide a General Price List to
all clients. You have the right to select and pay for only those services
you choose.
Q: Should children attend funerals?
A:
Children grieve just as adults do. Any child old enough to form a relationship
will experience some form of
grief when a relationship is
severed. As adults we may not view a child’s behavior as grief
as it often is demonstrated in ways which we misunderstand as “moody”, “cranky”, “withdrawn” or
other behavioral patterns which do not appear to us to be grief. When
a death occurs, children need to be surrounded by feelings of warmth,
acceptance and understanding. Caring adults can guide children through
this time when the child is experiencing feelings for which they have
no words. This time can be a growth experience for the child, teaching
them about love and relationships. You should create an atmosphere in
which the child’s thoughts, fears and wishes are recognized. This
means that they should be allowed to participate in any of the arrangements,
ceremonies and gatherings which are comfortable for them. First, explain
what will be happening and why it is happening at a level the child can
understand. A child may not be able to speak at a grandparent’s
funeral but would benefit greatly from the opportunity to draw a picture
to be placed in the casket. Be aware that children will probably have
short attention spans and may need to leave a service or gathering before
the adults are ready. The key is to allow participation, not to force
it. Forced participation can be harmful. Children instinctively have
a good sense of how involved they wish to be. They should be listened
to carefully.
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